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The Guide to Hard Conversations (When You Need Someone to Change Their Behavior)
There are few things more uncomfortable than having to ask someone to change how they treat you. Especially when they get defensive...


The Science of Motivation: Getting the Best Out of Your Team (or Your Kids)
One of the most powerful things you can learn as a leader, parent, teacher—or even as a partner—is how to motivate someone in a way that...


The Ultimate Cheat Sheet for better relationships - Learn EXACTLY what the people you love NEED most!
This Is Better Than Love Languages (and Might Just Save Your Relationship).  If you’ve ever wondered why someone you love seems distant,...


The Biggest Parenting Mistake You will Make—If You Don't Know Your Child's Shape
There’s one parenting mistake more common—and more damaging—than almost any other. It comes from not understanding your child’s Shape...


How to Recognize Red Flags in People – In Hiring or Dating
When you're hiring a new employee or going on a first date, it's easy to get caught up in charm, credentials, or chemistry. But if you're...


Why Ovals Avoid Confrontation – and How to Help Them Find Their Voice
Have you ever met someone who always tries to keep the peace, avoids arguments at all costs, and would rather sacrifice their own needs...


How to Know if You Are a Heart – The Most Empathetic Type of Person
Many people are naturally empathetic, but that alone doesn’t mean you are a Heart. There are other clues to consider. Remember, your...


What Your Shape Says About You in Relationships
The 12 Shapes Relationship System is a powerful tool for understanding how you show up in relationships. Whether you're struggling with...


Why Everything You Think About Personality Is Wrong— Personality is a false concept
The best personality test


How they are wired: Elon Musk and Robert F. Kennedy Jr.
In an earlier article, I delved into the Shape of Donald Trump, identifying him as a Rhombus. Now, I’d like to explain two other...